I waffled back and forth on writing this, at first because I wasn’t entirely sure if my thoughts on the topic were coherent even to myself, but secondly, because I expect that it will be easy for what I’m saying to be misconstrued or distorted simply because certain terms tend to bring along their own baggage whenever you use them. Gatekeeping is of course the term in question that I’m referring to, and its come up a lot more lately with the surge in popularity of Sleep Token, a band that I don’t have strong feelings on one way or another. Their sound is interesting, like a more soulful Linkin Park with the harder edges sanded off a bit, dressed up in a gothic meets cult (as in the hooded mysterious kind, not the “Firewoooomon” declaring kind) visual package that is appealing to me for its attempt at showmanship and ambition. I’m glad they’re successful, and hopeful that they are drawing a younger audience that is perhaps new to rock music or even rock adjacent music, let alone metal. A happy consequence of the success they’re having is it establishes a new arena level band that can invite along up and coming support acts, and establishes a festival headliner for the future as well as acting as a gateway band for newcomers to heavier music. Ahhhh! The gate!
That root word that enflames so many an online bickerings. Yes, there is a gate, and there have always been gateway bands and yes, gatekeeping attitudes, but I believe that its meaning and usage has been distorted by social media to only mean something ugly, repressive, and exclusionary — and I disagree with that definition. And it may seem like I’m just singling out social media in particular as the culprit here, but it has been hard not to notice that most of the discourse surrounding this term is largely percolating within places such as X, Bluesky, Facebook, and most glaringly, Threads. I’ll single out the latter since its where I’ve been seeing most of this kind of performative rage bait posting that gets airlifted to the top of my feed due to the algorithm (which still promotes posts over a half a year old as long as it generates views). Maybe I’m being too harsh, and there was a precluding incident with another metalhead that sparked that thread in the first place, but somehow, I doubt it. Gatekeeping as defined by that and similar social media posts decrying it are I believe an exclusively online phenomenon that happens within various social media platforms comments sections, where good faith and societal decency begin to decay and turn into something toxic.
Awhile back I wrote a history of my becoming a metalhead, and I shared an anecdote about the one pivotal time I might have actually been gatekept by two older metalheads who were in my percussion section in junior high band. It was a catalyzing moment in my life as a metalhead, because despite the hostility I received from one of them (shoutout Chad!), their admonition to me to look beyond mainstream metal (in this particular case, Metallica) and learn about other bands was critical to my entire mindset. Before that incident, I figured that the only bands worth checking out were the big ones I had heard of, and that the unknown bands just weren’t as good, but those two guys (even though they could be jerks about it) forced me to change my entire mindset and start learning and exploring. Something I neglected to mention in that linked article is that I would often come back to them when I’d learn about another awesome band and talk about what I’d heard, and they’d gruffly chime in with what they thought I should check out next. So yeah they were acting like gatekeepers in a way, but they didn’t discourage me from learning more about metal, quite the opposite actually, they were helping to guide me through the gate and pointing out which way to travel once through.

That imagery, of the gatekeeper, I’ve always likened to something akin to the figure Hammerfall’s Glory to the Brave cover, a stoic, battle-hammer wielding, armored guardian who is refusing entrance to some short sleeved poseurs meekly attempting to get by to the hellscape that exists beyond. Its a ridiculous thought of course, and not entirely helpful here because there’s no physical gate in this artwork either, so lets imagine one anyway for the purposes of this thought experiment. Is the gatekeeper always defined as someone who is keeping others out, or can the role of a gatekeeper be to welcome newcomers, and usher them through the gate while pointing or guiding them towards worthwhile paths? Extrapolating this to music, we all got here through a gateway of some kind, be it the first time you heard a Metallica or Iron Maiden song, or maybe you unwittingly tagged along to a metal show with an older sibling or friend and it blew your mind. No one started out in metal already loving second wave Norwegian black metal before they had heard something far more broader in reach, something more mainstream and palatable. So we all started to walk through a gateway, and hopefully, all of us were lucky enough to have a gatekeeper who helped us navigate our way through the wilderness once we were through.
My real life experience that I detailed above happened in the mid-90s, before social media and internet discourse ruled so much of our interactions with fellow human beings. I realize in watching older documentaries such as Heavy Metal Parking Lot and the Decline and Fall of Western Civilization that in those times, gatekeeping was very much a tangible, in your face thing that was happening to people all the time. Woe must have befallen the unsuspecting person wearing a glam metal t-shirt in that Judas Priest parking lot for example, and I’m not saying that was okay by any means, but it was how things were back then, the culture of its time, the same as my incident in my junior high band hall. Today, where we walk into bars or even restaurants and see people with their faces bent downwards staring at their phones, the very nature of our interpersonal interactions have changed dramatically (a topic for another time and place perhaps). What I’m getting at here, is that metal gatekeeping doesn’t happen in public — if you’re an exception to this, if someone has asked you to name three songs by the band whose shirt you’re wearing, you weren’t being gatekept, that person was just being an a-hole (and I realize this happens to women metalheads at times and I wish it didn’t). What I think this “gatekeeping” that so many social media posts are decrying is really just the volatility of comments on social media posts where anonymity or the newly dubbed online disinhibition effect (that being the reduced sense of restraint people feel when interacting online compared to face-to-face interactions) is in full swing.
I’m among a plethora of metalheads who are airing their thoughts on this in far more articulate ways than I likely am, such as John Barbas who explored it in depth with this episode of his Heavy Metal Philosophy show; or Steve Bryne’s really good piece in Loudwire on this very topic. One of the recurring things we’re all coming back to is the notion of whether or not gatekeeping really exists at all, or are we all jumping at online phantoms in the form of barbed and pointed random social media comments and getting up in arms about them. The people writing those comments that appear gatekeeper-ish actually have no way to gatekeep anything, they’re not excluding you from a potential circle of friends because of your Def Leppard shirt, they’re not preventing you from listening to whatever you want to hear, they’re just being jerks online, because its so easy to be a jerk online. And I’m really starting to feel that the people who stand stentorian on the mount, hands on hips as they decry those comments are also participating in a form of jerkdom — maybe one that’s fundamentally worse, because they’re seeking arguments and reactions in favor of gaining clout, likes, or whatever statistic serves the dopamine hit for them. I’m calling for all of us to just become more aware of this schtick as a whole, because it is schtick from both sides, and its taking advantage of our already plugged in states and just causing conflict for no reason. Lets be productive metalheads, be encouraging, spread the word of bands we love and albums we care about, and try to ignore the noise.